Can You Inherit Your Parents’ Debt?

creditcardsThere’s a lot to sort through after the death of a parent – photos, heirlooms, documents. But what about outstanding debt?

In most situations when a person dies the burden of debts falls on the estate (not the heirs personally), but the debt can eat into an inheritance and heirs are known to make missteps in distributing assets without settling debt first. However, settling certain types of debt could become your personal responsibility. Which kinds of debt? Let’s run through them.


Taxes still apply beyond the grave.

The estate must pay any property or income taxes, which you need to sort out before divvying up the inheritance. If you don’t it can come back to haunt you. For example, if an heir tries to sell their parent’s home before a tax debt is paid, the IRS can place a lien on the property to settle the debt.


If you’re a cosigner on a parent’s card, all associated credit card charges will fall to you.

Even if you weren’t a cosigner, debt collectors might still hassle you to collect the outstanding money from the estate (but see below about bill collectors). If the estate has the money those debts must be paid by the estate; if the estate doesn’t have the money those debts will most likely die with the debtor.

Be wary of bill collectors, who are known to use aggressive tactics so do the following to minimize the problems:

  • After a death, alert all the relevant credit card companies that the cardholder is deceased; send them a certified copy of the death certificate (or a faxed/scanned copy if they allow it since death certificate costs can add up).
  • In most states, this should stop any interest from accruing while the executor settles the estate.
  • If family members receive harassing phone calls from bill collectors during this process, it’s good to know your rights. Some collectors will say anything to get paid, and some even claim that a spouse or sibling is a cosigner on an account when they’re not. Always ask for relevant paperwork to back up their claims and direct them to speak with the Executor, who’s currently settling the estate.
  • If things get heated, always remember: If you’re not a cosigner for the card, this isn’t your debt and you don’t have to take any abuse.

Don’t Get Rattled: Credit card companies hand these debts off to other companies to collect and their bark is often much worse than their bite. It doesn’t make it less annoying but at no point should you use your own money to pay off debts that aren’t yours no matter what they tell you.


Was your parent covered by Medicaid? Then the state where the death occurred can attempt to recover payments by placing a lien on your parent’s house or other assets, but there’s a lengthy list of things it cannot do while attempting to collect that debt (a.k.a. “estate recovery”):

  • It can’t ask you to use your own funds to foot the Medicaid bill.
  • It can’t go after a surviving spouse.
  • It can’t collect if you or another sibling lived in your parent’s home at least two years prior to his/her death and personally provided care that postponed admission into a nursing home.

If your parent wasn’t on Medicaid and left hospital or doctor bills behind, the estate is responsible for those like any other debt. However, this is when you have to watch out for “filial responsibility” statutes, which according to MarketWatch “can be traced back to colonial times and (in theory) impose a duty on adult children to support their impoverished parents.”

It basically forces adult children to pay for a parent’s lingering medical debt when the estate simply can’t. More than half the states in this country have these laws, but rarely enforce them. However, when it comes to collecting debts anything is possible.


This can be a tricky one. If your parent still has a mortgage at the time of death, most of the time the estate won’t have to pay it in full immediately – but the estate needs to continue making payments until the property is transferred to another person or sold.

If you’re saddled with a mortgage that’s worth more than the actual property (“underwater”), you can ask the bank for a short sale. Should they say no, you can ask to foreclose instead. But be warned: Banks can pursue the estate for the difference between the sales price and the money still on the loan in the event of foreclosure.

You only have to worry about a foreclosure affecting your bank account and credit score if your name is on the mortgage. Again, if you didn’t sign or cosign for the loan then it’s not your problem.

If your parent had a reverse mortgage, payment is due on those normally within six months, and it’s best to settle them ASAP.

Should your parent’s mortgage become too much of a headache, you can always disclaim or refuse your inheritance. This passes the house off the person who would’ve gotten it if you were no longer alive.


It’s important to note that there are laws in place to protect you from disingenuous or abusive debt collectors. You may send complaints to the Federal Trade Commission or your state attorney general’s office.